Preventive Measures in Relationship

I always say to all my friends how important preventive measures is.

Love -or "something" related to heart- is not easy to control. It can be fun and dangerous at the same time.

That is why we need preventive measures in a relationship.

We will need preventive measures right from the start.

1. Do not overthink/exaggerate. (or in bahasa "jangan lebay").
~when we get closed to someone, we tend to exaggerate something. Even if the thing is really special never think it is special.~

2. Do not focus only in one person.
~never put too much attention and affection into one person only, you will become obbsessed. Find other person/stuff (does not have to be other fling, it can be your friends, families or hobbies).~

-USE THIRD METHOD IN SPECIAL CASES ONLY-

3. Do not fall in love.
~use this method in special cases ONLY. Example: if you get closed to someone that you cannot have (somebody else's partner, etc)~

These preventive measures are based on researches. Easy to write down but not easy to be done.

---------SIDE EFFECT----------

I have tried these preventive measures. They are come with a side effect. The side effect is you might lose a chance to know somebody in an intimacy relationship.

But it is okay for me since I have broken my heart once and I do not want it to happen again. So I will be more carefull this time. ~the truth is I am not ready for a relationshit oooops relationship~ hehehe xP


PeaceTakecareGoodluck
Erma
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