Thursday, May 06, 2010

Somehow I already know...

I don't know how and why, but sometimes I just know that someday if I ever decide to marry someone it is not because of love.

Eyck, don't get offended yah.. :D

It is not because I don't love him or not. It just because I am not based my decision to marry someone on love.

What is love anyway? Can someone explains to me?

That is why I decide to marry him because of greater reasons.. Greater than love.

The greater reasons are my parents and Sang Maha.

I know people might see me as a pathetic person, but I think it is no pathetic. I am being realistic..

Let me show you something.. If you want to build a house which base do you choose? Soil or Sand?

I choose Soil. Why? Because it is more solid than Sand.

If I build my house on the sand, what will happen? I may get the best beach view on my window but sand is not firm enough to hold a house.

If I build my house on the soil, I probably cannot choose my view but it will hold my house firmly.

And like people always said "love is like sand, if you hold it too tight, it will slip away"

Anyway, I can always have vacation on beaches right? :D

PeaceTakeCareGoodLuck
Erma
6may2010

10 comments:

-NonaIrNa- said...

selamat ya dek, meskipun mendengar cerita dari orang lain, and sadly ga langsung dari kamu, but i really happy for you and him and cannot wait till november.. :)

Anonymous said...

bukan november Mba... lho Mba Mir bukannya udah tau ya? kalo dilamar udah kan?

Yiyie Kawai Desu said...

Hopely He's the right one yah ;)

^eruma^ said...

insya Allah neng... aminnnn hahaha xD

romojolim said...

Ammmminnnn ya Alloh Amiiiin, semoga segala kebaikan atas temanku yang satu ini dan jagalah setiap kali dia melangkah

^eruma^ said...

aminnnn terimakasih Romooo.... :) ditunggu curhatannya.... :D

ayang sumarga said...

eruma....gak bisa ngomong..hmm..bilang apa yaa...hmmm....sama kayak anak2 yang laen,....
shock, ikutan happy, menunggu tanggal pasti.....dan cuma pen ngomong ......welcome to d club! dehhhhhhhh.siap memasuki 'Zona Ibu Muda'....cupcupmmuahh

^eruma^ said...

thank you Ayang... Yang blog kamu masi ada ga? aku link boleh? hehehe xP

ayang sumarga said...

iya sayang...ahhh blog ecek2 gak penting neng. http://www.ayangsumarga.blogspot.com/
pokoknya wajib kasitauuuuuuu tanggal pastinya yaa errrrrr

^eruma^ said...

loh emang belum tau Yang? bukannya aku udah bilang ya? aku kirim via sms yaa..