Monday, January 20, 2020

Harapan dan Kenyataan

20 Januari 2020

Terkadang manusia terjebak dalam harapan(-harapan) sampai lupa dengan kenyataan.
Ada yang terjebak harapan berharap menjadi kenyataan.
Ada yang berharap untuk menyimpan atau membalas atau mempertahankan atau melupakan.
Tetapi mereka lupa ada kenyataan, hidup yang harus dihayati, dijalani, dilalui dan dinikmati.

Terkadang membandingkan harapan dan kenyataan melupakan nikmatnya menjalani hidup.

Live your life, they said. Live your life happily no matter what, if i might suggest.
Sometimes, we just forget how wonderful life is when we compare expectations and reality.

Yes, probably some people might not treat you well. So what then. You can always adjust your actions. Show them you dont like it or just simply ignore them. If you expect them to treat you well, it will bother you more, especially if they will not change their attitude.

So yes, free yourself from those unnecesary expectations. Yes, it is not easy but it is really worth trying, right?

This post is a self reminder #notetoself

Peace TakeCare GoodLuck
Erma



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