I'm planning to watch a movie, too bad the movie is no longer in the cinemas. Too much controversy, they said. It's about inter-religion relationship (is it the correct term?) Anyway, it is about pacaran beda agama.
I have watched lots of Indonesian movies related to it, I think so far only Cinta Tapi Beda that I haven't get a chance to watch. Some people said it was too much, suggesting that kids to disobey to parents and so on. Since I haven't watch it -- I don't want to comment about Cinta Tapi Beda.
However, I have comments on general pacaran beda agama. Lots of them, not only comments but also stories (maybe true story, maybe fictions, maybe my story, maybe yours, maybe no one).
Why I want to share it here. Because it is my blog I basically I can write whatever I like :D Noooo lahhh that is not the real reasons. The real reasons are; I want to share it, I want to show you who are in pacaran beda agama to understand that you really can move on, and what I got from it.
Disclaimer: I am NOT suggesting anyone to pacaran beda agama/pacaran seagama or to menikah beda agama/menikah seagama or to continue their relationship or to end their relationship. Only big hearted person who can read this post since it will not be easy to understand.
There I said it :) Now, let's get start... Actually I want to write it in Bahasa but for some reasons, I write it like this - in my not so good English and Singlish and Bahasa.
Back then in a day when GusDur elected as a Indonesian President, I'm officially involve in pacaran beda agama (jadian lah istilah kerennya). Why? I'll be honest at that time (please be noted 'at that time') I wasn't consider religion as a super duper important thing in life (which I'm wrong..don't be mad at me, read this post entirely and you will understand or not -- up to you) and other reasons (related to my partner at that time, and I don't feel like to unveil it to you, hope you all can understand).
Sneak peek to my background I'm Indonesian, Jakartans. Both of my parents are from Jogjakarta and my big extended families come from many different religions. But my parent, my family to be exact is a quite religious one religion family.
--How It Goes--
And how it went? It went well, very well if I might say. I was happy, my partner never made me cry (even if I cry -- and I do cried a looooot -- it was because of our condition not because of my partner), I was madly in love. And at that time our love has through so many things, distance, other lovers and yes we tried to break up so many times but we always end up caring and loving for one and another. (This was how I felt and my assumption of my partner feeling too -- if I'm wrong.. It's my bad then hahaha :D) I consider I have found my soulmate at that time. We were so much in love and everybody can see it clearly. That was such a sweet memory. Okayyyy too much information,, long story short our relationship went well, until the ship of reality hits me so freaking hard right on my wide forehead.
..To be continue..
Please kindly wait for the second part befor you throw any not-so-good comments. Good comments and questions are always welcomed :)
Especially those movie producers and movie directors and book publishers :D